OK, I resoldered best I could, all 9 contacts, and the lug. Then went according to shop manual troubleshooting for that controller. Now please note that the RIGHT headlight doors work with the controller connected, but the left do not. So the manual said to JUMPER the contacts from the working right side doors to those 2 contacts to the left doors to see if that works, That did not.
That means (according to the manual and intuition) that there is a wiring problem somewhere, going to the right side door motors. I checked continuity from the connector that goes to clipped to the module/controller, and it is good. Then I applied voltage 12 DC directly to the headlight door motor and it turned clockwise, then C-Clockwise. So I am mystified at this point. I am not so sure my module is bad. I know you guys can help me just so much online.