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James said:Get married before having kids.
Why? Granted, I did it (if only barely do),
but why is it important?
robert
James said:Get married before having kids.
Why? Granted, I did it (if only barely do),
but why is it important?
No. Gratuitously dragging the sexual orientation of someone into a
discussion as a (fortunately futile) effort to attract stupid jokes is
strange.
robert
John said:Chainsaws are the near-ultimate expression of American macho
masculinity, so I find it ironic that when I need one, I borrow it
from my gay neighbor.
But what is this prejudice against strange?
See, I didn't even get that. Chainsaws, DSL lines, all the same: Stuff you
share.
I'm not prejudiced against strange. I just found it strange that you felt
the urge to mention that your neighbor was gay. I now understand that you
did it because the idea of a homosexual posessing a chainsaw amuses you.
robert
1) Those who marry after, often don't.
2) Children really do need two parents.
3) "For the Children." ;-)
On 21 Feb 2007 16:37:12 -0800, "James Arthur"
[snip]
My theory is not that the richhave stolen, but that, by and large, the poor haven't risen to their
potential.
The rich have two major functions:
1. To be productive, to build things on a large scale.
2. To divert a portion of society's resources (read "money" if you
will) from consumption to investment. Somebody's got to do it.
and one minor one
3. To be an example.
John
I'd counter & propose ideally that rich people became so by virtue
of their being productive, and by virtue of carefully saving and
applying the proceeds. That description covers the majority of my
acquaintence, with a minority who owe theirs to luck, looks, or
mischief.
I'll grant you the save and invest function, but note that everyone
can save and invest, not just tycoons. Scores of tiny capital caches
could add up to significant and great power nationally, if only they
existed. Witness the benefit of micro-cap loans in Africa and Asia.
And being an example, to me, means to teach others the road to
freedom, to help them realize their potential, which is very important
indeed.
It's not all that hard: Go to school. Work. Get married before
having kids. Save, don't waste. Invest.
For Keith's reasons, to be sure, namely, it's great for the kids.
But, there are even more basic, practical reasons _for the parents_
when it comes to "how to avoid being poor": it's more efficient. It
costs more to maintain two households than one. It's as easy to shop
& cook for two or three people as for one. There are other economies
as well. So getting married helps, and most especially if you're
going to have kids.
I'd counter & propose ideally that rich people became so by virtue
of their being productive, and by virtue of carefully saving and
applying the proceeds. That description covers the majority of my
acquaintence, with a minority who owe theirs to luck, looks, or
mischief.
James said:when it comes to "how to avoid being poor": it's more efficient. It
costs more to maintain two households than one. It's as easy to shop
& cook for two or three people as for one. There are other economies
as well. So getting married helps, and most especially if you're
going to have kids.
John said:Married people are healthier, happier, wealthier, live longer, and
have more sex than singles.
You're talking about couples. They don't have necessarily to be married.
Robert said:You're talking about couples. They don't have necessarily to be married.
krw said:[email protected] says...
It certainly helps. As dismal as the divorce rates are, they're
far better than the "shack-up" rates.
Are they really ?
The singles may have raunchier sex though !
Graham
What you mean is: live together and stay together. I fully agree, but that
has nothing to do with marriage.
Are they really ?
It depends on how self-righteous and guilt-ridden you are.
John said:You mean, before the brownshirts beat up all the political opposition?
Before Hitler became the Fuhrer? By the time they invaded Poland, it
wasn't anything like a functional democracy.
John