We haven't seen the circuit.
Everyone is trying to help.
Considering the problems you're having. I would be seriously trying to get some
information from the manufacturer. If you know who made the chair, you might be
able to track down who made the circuit for it, and find information on the circuit.
If not from the manufacturer, then a Google-type search for anything anyone else
has posted on this type of problem with that manufacture chair.
You are probably not the only one who has run into this before.
Frankly, most of the guys I've seen on this site are pretty good, especially when
they've got a picture of the board in question. But a schematic of the circuit would
almost certainly get some good responses.
If your load for this circuit is damaged. No matter what you do to repair the driving
circuit, you are going to fry any components in it that you replace.
That MAY be your problem you know.
Good luck on this. You seem determined, and people on this site will help as well
as they can, cause we have the same mind-set you do about fixing things.