Wrong. The longer the water stays in the heater grid hoses the hotter it becomes.
True, but sorry, you are wrong about this helping heat the pool.
What you are wanting to do is adding unnecessary complexity and will actually reduce the amount of heat to the pool.
It's simple physics.
The amount of energy the panels absorb is determined solely by the sun and is maximum when the panels are cool.
Letting the panel heat up will actually reduce the amount of net energy absorbed, since now more will be radiated back to the surrounding cooler air.
So you want to keep the panels as cool as possible to minimize that loss, which means keeping the maximum continuous flow through the panels when the sun is shinning.
Two ways to get the pool warmer is to cover the pool completely when not using it, and/or add more panels.
I'm rather surprised at how many (besides Alec_t and AK) went along with variations of your scheme, without apparently realizing this.
